The Institute for Welcoming Resources http://www.welcomingresources.org The Institute for Welcoming Resources is a consortium of denominational representatives of the Welcoming Church Movement. This ecumenical group provides resources to facilitate a paradigm shift in multiple denominations whereby churches become welcoming and affirming of all congregants regardless of sexual orientation and gender identify. IWR is a program of the National Gay and Lesbian Task Force. http://www.welcomingresources.org/images/iwrlogo100x100.jpg http://www.welcomingresources.org The Institute for Welcoming Resources en-us info@welcomingresources.org (IWR & Faith Work Coordinator) merigrrl@merigrrl.com (IWR Webmaster) Fri, 27 Feb 2009 10:50:00 PST Tue, 09 Mar 2010 10:00:00 PST Institute for Welcoming Resources (IWR) RSS 2.0 generation class http://www.welcomingresources.org/iwrblog.rss Catholic School's Treatment of Child of Lesbian Couple Protested by Many http://www.dignityusa.org/content/catholic-schools-treatment-child-lesbian-couple-protested-many http://www.dignityusa.org/content/catholic-schools-treatment-child-lesbian-couple-protested-many Leaders of DignityUSA join Catholic families in Boulder, Colorado in expressing extreme disappointment that the young child of lesbian parents has become the Archdiocese's latest target in its attacks on gay, lesbian, and transgender people. The child has been barred from returning to Sacred Heart of Jesus School because of her parents' sexual orientation Tue, 09 Mar 2010 09:30:00 PST Faith in Action ELCA Bishops Reach Consensus on 'ELM' Pastors, More Review Needed http://www.elca.org/Who-We-Are/Our-Three-Expressions/Churchwide-Organization/Communication-Services/News.aspx http://www.elca.org/Who-We-Are/Our-Three-Expressions/Churchwide-Organization/Communication-Services/News.aspx ITASCA, Ill. (ELCA) -- The Conference of Bishops of the Evangelical Lutheran Church in America (ELCA) reached a consensus March 8 on a draft proposal for a rite that would bring onto the church's official clergy roster those pastors who were ordained and are on the clergy roster of "Extraordinary Lutheran Ministries (ELM)." ELM "expands ministry opportunities for people of all sexual orientations and gender identities in the Lutheran church," according to its Web site. Tue, 09 Mar 2010 09:30:00 PST Faith in Action Church called to love and serve, not judge and cut http://newsweek.washingtonpost.com/onfaith/guestvoices/2010/03/church_called_to_love_and_serve_not_judge_and_cut.html http://newsweek.washingtonpost.com/onfaith/guestvoices/2010/03/church_called_to_love_and_serve_not_judge_and_cut.html The decision by Catholic Charities in Washington, D.C. to close its adoption and foster care programs and stop providing spousal benefits to new employees - all to avoid serving same-sex couples who may now legally marry in the district - is religious hypocrisy at its worst. Part of the organization's mission statement reads, "We bring help for today and hope for the future to the most vulnerable among us." Except, apparently, if you are a same-sex couple seeking to adopt or provide a home for a foster child, or if you are a legally married gay man or lesbian who works at Catholic Charities and needs spousal benefits. Fri, 05 Mar 2010 09:30:00 PST Faith in Action Senators introduce legislation to repeal "Don't Ask, Don't Tell" policy http://www.thetaskforce.org/press/releases/pr_af_030310 http://www.thetaskforce.org/press/releases/pr_af_030310 Legislation to repeal the military's "Don't Ask, Don't Tell" ban on openly lesbian, gay and bisexual service members was introduced today in the U.S. Senate by Sen. Joe Lieberman (I-Conn.), along with 11 other co-sponsors. Lieberman, Carl Levin (D-Mich.), Mark Udall (D-Colo.), Kirsten Gillibrand (D-N.Y.) and Roland Burris (D-Ill.) held a press conference today to discuss the repeal effort and introduce the bill. Wed, 03 Mar 2010 09:30:00 PST Faith in Action Bishop Katharine Jefferts Schori Supports the National Week of Prayer for the Healing of HIV/AIDS http://www.welcomingresources.org/index.htm#schori http://www.welcomingresources.org/index.htm#schori The Balm in Gilead's National Week of Prayer for the Healing of AIDS is an opportunity to again reflect on and rededicate ourselves to the eradication of HIV/AIDS. As we head toward March 7-13, 2010, I encourage Christians to consider the vast toll that AIDS has taken on this world and to consider how you might participate in the work and witness that is, indeed, God's "balm in Gilead." Wed, 03 Mar 2010 09:30:00 PST Faith in Action Religious Institute Charges D.C. Catholic Charities with Lack of Family Values http://www.welcomingresources.org/index.htm#catholic http://www.welcomingresources.org/index.htm#catholic In response to the recent decisions by Catholic Charities to stop providing spousal benefits to its employees and to abandon its adoption and foster care programs in Washington, D.C. -- both in order to exclude same-sex couples -- the Religious Institute issued the following statement from its executive director, Rev. Debra W. Haffner. Wed, 03 Mar 2010 09:30:00 PST Faith in Action Rev. Geoffrey Black Supports the National Week of Prayer for the Healing of HIV/AIDS http://www.welcomingresources.org/index.htm#GeofferyBlack http://www.welcomingresources.org/index.htm#GeofferyBlack For nearly 30 years, HIV and AIDS has been a growing pandemic in our country andaround the world. Whether we are conscious of it or not, every one of us is affected by thisdisease. When we look more closely, we see HIV and AIDS not only continues to have adevastating impact on scores of people and communities, but also that some are bearingthe brunt of this disease much more severely than others, particularly the poor, people ofcolor, and young people. Tue, 02 Mar 2010 09:30:00 PST Faith in Action Bill Moyers' Journal: February 26, 2010 http://www.welcomingresources.org/videos.htm#moyer http://www.welcomingresources.org/videos.htm#moyer Once adversaries in 2000's Bush v. Gore Supreme Court case, now two of the nation's premier lawyers - one conservative and one liberal - have teamed up to make the constitutional case for same-sex marriage. Conversation led by journalist and Baptist minister Bill Moyers. Mon, 01 Mar 2010 09:30:00 PST Videos All Whom God Has Joined http://www.welcomingresources.org/marriage.xml#Tigert http://www.welcomingresources.org/marriage.xml#Tigert <img src="http://www.welcomingresources.org/images/AllWhomGod.jpg" width="100" height="150" border="1" align="right" hspace="10" vspace="10" alt="All Who God Has Joined"> All Whom God Has Joined provides - in one accessible volume - a unique collection of liturgical and ceremonial resources as well as pastoral care tools and insights on same-sex covenanting ceremonies for clergy and couples addressing these issues. Those who want a clearer understanding of this subject will also benefit from this one-of-a-kind book. Tue, 23 Feb 2010 09:30:00 PST Marriage Equality Worship and Arts Pastor Anita Hill To Be Received to the Clergy Roster of the ELCA http://www.welcomingresources.org/index.htm#anitahill http://www.welcomingresources.org/index.htm#anitahill <img src="http://www.welcomingresources.org/images/AnitaHill.jpg" width="138" height="200" border="1" align="right" hspace="10" vspace="10" alt="Pastor Anita Hill"> Pastor Anita Hill, St. Paul-Reformation Lutheran church, St. Paul, Minnesota, has been informed by the Candidacy Committee of the St. Paul Synod that she will be received onto the clergy roster of the ELCA following the finalization of changes to the governing documents, Vision and Expectations (V&E) and Definitions and Guidelines for Discipline (D&G), expected at the April meeting of the ELCA Church Council. The changes will remove the policy barriers to service on the roster in the ELCA by ministers in committed, lifelong, same-gender relationships. Wed, 24 Feb 2010 09:30:00 PST Faith in Action Uncommon Hope: A DVD Enhanced Curriculum Reflecting the Heart of the Church for People Affected by HIV/AIDS http://www.welcomingresources.org/interlocking.xml#Love http://www.welcomingresources.org/interlocking.xml#Love Uncommon Hope offers a dynamic, small-group curriculum designed to support people of faith in answering God's call to end the silence and inaction magnifying the human suffering and death wrought by HIV and AIDS. Whether your church or faith-based organization is just beginning to engage in HIV/AIDS ministry or has a long history in the work, Uncommon Hope provides tools and experiences to foster the development of spiritual responses that are authentic to your community, consistent with the core teachings of all major faith traditions, and respectful of the rich diversity reflected in the lives most impacted by the HIV/AIDS pandemic. Thu, 03 Dec 2009 08:30:00 PST Interlocking Oppression Resources Welcoming Resources Education Resources Medicine and Psychology Resources ENDA Action Center http://www.welcomingresources.org/index.htm#endaaction http://www.welcomingresources.org/index.htm#endaaction As the inclusive Employment Non-Discrimination Act (ENDA) begins to make its way through Congress, we want to provide faith based groups with resources and actions that will help them support this important piece of legislation that assures equality for all in the workplace. The voices of the faith community in support of ENDA is vital to gaining positive Congressional action. With House action expected before Thanksgiving, fast response is also critical. Check this ENDA Action Center often for new information and resources. Fri, 06 Nov 2009 10:00:00 PST Faith in Action Just Say Know: A Faith-Based Advocacy Guide for Sexuality Education http://www.welcomingresources.org/families.xml#online http://www.welcomingresources.org/families.xml#online An online guide to help clergy and religious leaders advocate for comprehensive sexuality education in public schools. This guide provides background on comprehensive sexuality education, theological and spiritual grounding for advocacy, suggestions for involvement on the congregational, local, state and national levels, worship ideas, fact sheets, bibliographies and more." Tue, 15 Sep 2009 09:00:00 PST Family Resources Out in the Silence http://www.welcomingresources.org/videos.htm#outinthesilence http://www.welcomingresources.org/videos.htm#outinthesilence This inspirational and gripping documentary uses the story of a small American town confronting the firestorm of controversy ignited by a same-sex wedding announcement to illustrate the challenge of being an outsider in a conservative environment and catalyze new ways of making resources and support available for those working for change. The film and accompanying outreach campaign are supported by grants from the Sundance Documentary Film Program and Pennsylvania Public Television Network. Tue, 4 Aug 2009 14:00:00 PST Video Coming Out Resources Family Resources Marriage Equality Resources Youth and Young Adults Resources In Good Conscience: Sister Jeanine Gramick's Journey of Faith http://www.welcomingresources.org/spirituality.xml#Rick http://www.welcomingresources.org/spirituality.xml#Rick In Barbara Rick's acclaimed documentary, In Good Conscience, a most unlikely and very funny rebel - an American nun - finds herself at the center of a human rights storm with leaders of one of the world's most revered institutions, the Roman Catholic Church. The film chronicles the true story of Sister Jeannine Gramick, who is defying a Vatican edict that she shut down her compassionate ministry to gay and lesbian Catholics, and silence herself permanently on the subject of homosexuality. Her battle takes her all the way to Rome where she attempts an audience with her key adversary over the years - none other than Cardinal Joseph Ratzinger - the Inquisitor who would become Pope Benedict XVI. Sister Jeannine has worked within the church for more than thirty years on behalf of the LGBT community and its fight for acceptance, recognition, and equality. When issued this ultimatum from Cardinal Ratzinger and Pope John Paul II - denounce homosexuality or lose everything - quietly and with respect, she refused. Mon, 22 Jun 2009 09:00:00 PST Sexuality & Spirituality Why I Chose to Get Arrested http://www.welcomingresources.org/iwrblog.htm#061609 http://www.welcomingresources.org/iwrblog.htm#061609 I wanted to thank so many people for your messages and for the encouragement and support over the civil disobedience last week. Now I know who to call, next time I'm in trouble or need to be bailed out! It was truly a humble privilege to stand there on behalf of so many you who could not, but who shared my sentiment and convictions. I think of the many times when I wanted to, but couldn't get arrested. And of those who have stood on my behalf, in my lifetime and long before it. Wed, 17 Jun 2009 09:00:00 PST Blog A Time to Build Up http://www.welcomingresources.org/index.htm#atime http://www.welcomingresources.org/index.htm#atime Analysis of the No on Proposition 8 Campaign and its Implications for Future Pro-lgbtqqia Religious Organizing Thu, 04 Jun 2009 05:00:00 PST Now Available Progress Comes in Small Steps But It Moves Us Forward http://www.welcomingresources.org/iwrblog.htm#051509 http://www.welcomingresources.org/iwrblog.htm#051509 One of the biggest challenges faced by transgender people is how to gain acknowledgment and affirmation of their identity when dealing with the public. Seldom if ever do application or enrollment forms or questionnaires ever give us the opportunity to state that we are something other than the traditional binary gender code of male or female. Fri, 15 May 2009 11:32:00 PST Blog All in God's Family: Creating Allies for Our LGBT Families http://www.welcomingresources.org/aigf_orderform.htm http://www.welcomingresources.org/aigf_orderform.htm <img src="http://www.welcomingresources.org/images/allingodsfamily.jpg" width="150" height="184" border="0" align="right" hspace="10" vspace="10" alt="All in God's Family" /> Giving you opportunities to gather with other members of your congregation to pray, to learn, to share, and to work together to transform your lives, your congregation, and your world into a loving place in which God's lesbian, gay, bisexual, and transgender families can thrive. Mon, 11 May 2009 09:00:00 EST Family Resources Biblical Resources Youth and Young Adults Resources Building an Inclusive Church: A Welcoming Toolkit http://www.welcomingresources.org/welcomingtoolkit.pdf http://www.welcomingresources.org/welcomingtoolkit.pdf Drawing upon twenty-five years of experience within a variety of Christian denominations, this Toolkit is a step-by-step guide to help facilitate a Welcoming Process in your local congregation. Biblically and theologically based, it uses tools of relational organizing, congregational assessment, conflict management and change theory. Thu, 30 Apr 2009 09:00:00 PST Welcoming Resources To Do Justice: A Study of Welcoming Congregations http://www.welcomingresources.org/To_Do_Justice.pdf http://www.welcomingresources.org/To_Do_Justice.pdf In order to both highlight the vibrancy, faithfulness and power of the Welcoming Movement and to counter the "false witness" of those who seek to quash this movement of hospitality and justice, the Institute for Welcoming Resources surveyed pastors and leaders of 1,200 Welcoming congregations to ask them about their work and witness. Two areas emerged that warrant particular focus and celebration: (a) successfully completing a Welcoming Process makes a congregation more likely to work and witness on other justice issues, and (b) congregations that directly engage the question of welcoming LGBT persons have low levels of conflict. Thu, 30 Apr 2009 09:00:00 PST Welcoming Resources Reflecting on the Power of Religion http://www.welcomingresources.org/iwrblog.htm#040609 http://www.welcomingresources.org/iwrblog.htm#040609 An 11-year-old child commits suicide because his schoolmates bullied him for his perceived sexual orientation using religion as an excuse. An openly gay man becomes the first person to be consecrated bishop by a religious denomination. That's the power of religion. It can be used for good or for bad. During a period in which Christians celebrate Holy Week, Jewish people commemorate Passover, some Muslims celebrate Milad un Nabi, and Buddhists mark Magha Puja Day, among many others, we should reflect on the power that faith has either to construct or destroy. Mon, 06 Apr 2009 02:32:01 PST Blog Immigration, Queers and Justice -- It's All About Hospitality http://www.welcomingresources.org/iwrblog.htm#022409 http://www.welcomingresources.org/iwrblog.htm#022409 The Jewish rabbi rose and read from the Psalms and talked about the importance of joy in the midst of suffering-not in an out-of-touch sort of way but joy rooted in the knowledge that God does and will bring justice. He followed his words by teaching us all an Alleluiah song. Thu, 26 Feb 2009 12:00:00 PST Blog Making churches transgender inclusive http://www.welcomingresources.org/iwrblog.htm#021809 http://www.welcomingresources.org/iwrblog.htm#021809 As a transgender Christian who has visited numerous churches throughout the country, I know first hand the need to make religious institutions welcoming and affirming of transgender people but have seen time and time again that the congregational-based resources are not there yet. I have heard the anger and frustration from many of my transgender brothers and sisters as they relate how they have been met with hostility and fear upon entering a church to attend worship services. Wed, 18 Feb 2009 08:00:00 PST Blog Prayers for Bobby http://www.welcomingresources.org/iwrblog.htm#020409 http://www.welcomingresources.org/iwrblog.htm#020409 "Prayers for Bobby" is a new TV movie based upon a true story of a mother whose inability to accept her gay son contributes to his eventual suicide. In her grief, she reevaluates the religious ideology that fueled her fears and, through the help of PFLAG and a compassionate yet challenging MCC pastor, emerges a strong lgbt advocate. The movie has been met with enthusiasm, particularly among those in the welcoming movement. Wed, 04 Feb 2009 08:00:00 PST Blog transACTION: A Transgender Curriculum For Churches and Religious Institutions http://www.welcomingresources.org/transaction_final.pdf http://www.welcomingresources.org/transaction_final.pdf The Institute for Welcoming Resources (IWR), a program of the National Gay and Lesbian Task Force, recently released transACTION: A Transgender Curriculum for Churches and Religious Institutions. This is the very first curriculum of its kind aimed at helping inclusive religious institutions to arm their congregants and members with training on how to welcome, understand and recognize the contributions of transgender persons within their faith settings. Wed, 21 Jan 2009 09:00:00 PST Transgender Resources A little something for everyone http://www.welcomingresources.org/iwrblog.htm#121808 http://www.welcomingresources.org/iwrblog.htm#121808 As a child, I became very used to the fact that whenever we had a meal at my paternal grandmother's house (which was nearly every Sunday and all holidays), there would be a table laden with food. Three types of meats, four or five vegetables, and two or three desserts - always something on the table of each type that my grandmother knew was each person's favorite or at least something each of us liked. It would have been a disaster of a meal for my grandmother if anyone had to eat something that was not her or his favorite. Fri, 12 Dec 2008 08:00:00 PST Blog A Place in God's Heart... A Place at Christ's Table: Worship Resources for the Welcoming Church Movement http://www.welcomingresources.org/A_Place_in_Gods_Heart.htm http://www.welcomingresources.org/A_Place_in_Gods_Heart.htm Dedicated to Rev. Ann B. Day and Donna Enberg in honor and celebration of their twenty years as leaders of the Open and Affirming Program of the United Church of Christ Coalition for Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender Concerns and for their founding and ongoing spirit in the ecumenical Welcoming Church Movement. Prepared by their friends in the Welcoming Church Movement and the Institute for Welcoming Resources. Thu, 21 Jun 2007 09:12:00 PST Worship Resources